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Etiquette -- United States Books
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Samuel R. (Samuel Roberts) Wells
How to Behave: A Pocket Manual of Republican Etiquette, and Guide to Correct Personal Habits Embracing an Exposition of the Principles of Good Manners; Useful Hints on the Care of the Person, Eating, Drinking, Exercise, Habits, Dress, Self-culture, and Behavior at Home; the Etiquette of Salutations, Introductions, Receptions, Visits, Dinners, Evening Parties, Conversation, Letters, Presents, Weddings, Funerals, the Street, the Church, Places of Amusement, Traveling, Etc., with Illustrative Anecdotes, a Chapter on Love and Courtship, and Rules of Order for Debating Societies
"How to Behave: A Pocket Manual of Republican Etiquette" by Samuel R. Wells is a guide to proper etiquette and personal conduct written in the late 19th century. This manual aims to instruct young Americans in the principles of good manners, personal hygiene, social behavior, and appropriateness in various contexts, such as dining, conversation, and dress. The book emphasizes the importance of etiquette as not merely superficial rules, but as reflections of one's moral character and societal respect. The opening portion of the manual sets the stage for its comprehensive examination of etiquette by introducing the foundational concepts of cleanliness and personal habit. It underscores the idea that good manners begin with the individual, highlighting the duties owed to oneself and to others in social interactions. Wells elaborates on essential personal hygiene practices, such as bathing, grooming, and dressing appropriately for various contexts, emphasizing that a well-cared-for appearance is not only a social obligation but also crucial for one's self-esteem and acceptance within society. Throughout this introduction, the author advocates for a holistic approach to etiquette, linking personal habits with broader social principles and moral duties.
S. Annie (Sarah Annie) Frost
Frost's Laws and By-Laws of American Society A condensed but thorough treatise on etiquette and its usages in America, containing plain and reliable directions for deportment in every situation in life.
"Frost's Laws and By-Laws of American Society" by S. Annie Frost is a treatise on etiquette and societal norms in America, written during the late 19th century. This work serves as a comprehensive guide, addressing various aspects of conduct in social situations, from invitations and introductions to conversation and behavior at public and private gatherings. It aims to provide reliable directives for individuals navigating the complexities of social interactions to avoid the pitfalls of faux pas. The opening portion of the text introduces the purpose and rationale behind the need for a definitive manual on etiquette in society. Frost discusses the diversity of opinions regarding manners, emphasizing that while certain individuals may dismiss etiquette as frivolous, a well-structured code is essential for maintaining civility and harmony in social interactions. She highlights the importance of understanding the unwritten laws governing behavior, which are derived from custom and necessity. Additionally, the book outlines a variety of topics to be covered, including introductions, calls, and proper forms of salutation, establishing a foundation for the detailed guidance that follows in later chapters.
Nathan Dane Urner
Stop! A Handy Monitor, Pocket Conscience and Portable Guardian against the World, the Flesh and the Devil
"Stop! A Handy Monitor, Pocket Conscience and Portable Guardian against the World, the Flesh and the Devil" by Mentor is a self-help guide that aims to provide moral advice and practical wisdom to readers. Written in the late 19th century, the book emphasizes the importance of thoughtful living and self-regulation in various aspects of life, such as choosing a vocation, handling money matters, and managing relationships. Its format suggests it serves as a personal handbook for moral guidance. The book is structured into chapters that deal with several key areas of life, providing instructions and caveats for young men entering adulthood. Each section encourages readers to pause and reflect before taking action—whether in career choices, romantic engagements, financial decisions, or personal conduct. For example, it advises against impulsivity in love, emphasizes the value of honesty in business, and underscores the need for self-control in all areas. Mentor’s approach combines humor with serious admonitions, making it engaging while imparting essential life lessons that remain relevant even today.
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